Whoa! I've had a little visitor the last couple of days. It's been exciting and fun, it's been a while since I've had some visitors.

My little visitor, I think it's a girl, seems to spend most of the day sleeping and soaking in the rays. She seems to like my balcony.

I've been feeding it whatever I can find in the fridge and stroking it's little tummy and been leaving work a little earlier to go home and see what it's upto. It's so cute.

I'd attach a picture but I keep forgetting to bring out the camerage. I've been calling it little schnookyschnookysnookums* but I think it prefers to be called Cara.

The EP launch went really well last Thursday, I flew down after work and flew back early morning while Cara flew up here at a more reasonable time. She's been working craziness the last few months so she's way enjoying some down time.

It hasn't totally been like, sunny to the max dude, but she's loved it anyway. Our 4 year anniversary is in the next couple of days. We're still in dispute about the exact dateage. We clearly got together at our friend Amber's party (Amber whose dog we may look after forever).

The party was on a Friday night, we didn't actually pash until well into the morning and didn't have 'the talk' until the Sunday. The Friday was the 25th of October, The Saturday the 26th and Sunday the 27th. I reckon our anniversary is on the 25th, she reckons it's on the 26th.
Even though we're both big talkers, it's been a bit exhausting for us both, outside of work I haven't really had too much social contact where Cara has had heaps, but has worked mostly in isolation during the days. It's weird getting used to so much contact again. It's also weird that she's beaten me 4 times to 1 at Trouble. Girls aren't supposed to win games.

Yesterday she spent some time on the internet, our friend in England has got a blog and recently got engaged so that's been a bit exciting. Cara started up her own blog because she's a way groovy writer and is going through interesting band times, except, I haven't exactly told her about this one yet. I haven't specifically kept it from her, but I've liked having a section of my life where I could vent without consequence if need be. I'm also embarrassed and feeling guilty that I've had this going for two years without sharing it.

I do wonder if I shared this blog with her, if it would change my focus. I write for myself and sometimes for you guys, would I then write for her, or start to self-edit?

That said, it's the only part of my life I haven't been completely 100% upfront which drags on me a little.

* I must have some allergy though, every time I use this name I feel a short sharp pain in my ribs.